Thursday, January 01, 2009

New Year's Habits

A friend of mine often says, "I blame myself." If she is in trouble, or she finds herself in a regrettable situation, she'll say, "I blame myself." She says it so often that I wonder if she really DOES blame herself. (I always thought accepting blame should lead to change, so these regrettable situations don't come up over and over again?)

I think this is my problem with New Year's Resolutions. They feel like a blame game, where we lament how much thinner, richer, and happier we could be if we'd done the right things, and make lists of all the things we regret about last year and ourselves. But we always seem to stop at "officially" accepting the blame and making the list, and rarely follow through and make those changes.

This year I'm not going to make any New Year's Resolutions. They don't work. The only way I've ever changed anything is by making it a habit, so I'm going to choose some new New Year's Habits, instead.

You're probably wondering what I'm talking about! Here's an example: if you have ten pounds that you'd love to lose, I'll bet that's at the top of your list of resolutions. (I personally had 15 pounds at the top of my resolutions list for years.) How do you turn "Lose 10 pounds" into a habit rather than a resolution?

Ten pounds is equal to 35,000 calories, or about 100 calories per day of this year. If you change something about your daily routine that either burns an extra 100 calories or drops 100 calories, in a year's time you will have lost 10 pounds.
Make it a habit by:
• Leaving the whipped cream and sugary syrups out of your coffee to save 100 calories.
• Walking up and down your stairs for 15 minutes to burn 100 calories.
• Trading your plain doughnut for a handful of baby carrots to save more than 100 calories.
• Riding your bike for 20 minutes to burn 100 calories.
Here are more ways to burn 100 calories and calorie content information for lots of foods.

My new habits for 2009 will not involve calorie counting, but I do plan to log more minutes on my treadmill. And probably I'll have to resort to wearing a timer to limit the hours I spend on my computer. (Hey, it's a hard habit to break.) I'm going to add a weekly trip to my local library to start tackling that reading list. I haven't done enough reading in the past few years, what with the computer habit. As my friend would say, I blame myself. But I'm hoping these new interests can be just as habit-forming.

I have a few other ideas for 2009 Habits. What about you? Do you make resolutions every year? How many of them do you keep? Want to join me in choosing New Year's Habits, instead?! Please share your comments!

2 comments:

  1. I like this! I'll need to think about it. Thank you!

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  2. Eat less.
    Eat better.
    Exercise.
    Smile often.

    Best,
    PJ

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